Real pain comes when loving people come and go!

Dinali Rosemin Dabarera
2 min readJun 2, 2016

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Sometimes the reason to live this life is our loved ones. I started writing this post before I start my final semester of final year because I feel like in the near future I had to say good bye to all. For past three and half years, I met many people of different kinds, boys and girls, profs, instructors, officers, minus staff, canteen people, labours and unknown people. For many times they helped me, some quarrelled with me, some loved me a lot. The people who loved me and helped me gave me a hope to live this 4 years being like my parents. They knew what I like, they understand my feeling and cared me unconditionally. So did I. Not as a return but from the heart, I helped them when needed, took care of them unconditionally, laughed and cried with them.

By this time I have no hope of my future, but feel like staying here for few more days. What if this time never go.. stay like this forever… which will never happen in this life…

Being so close to some people, when you know that you have to leave them soon, is a real pain. This let me know that what Lord Buddha said was right. Bonds and relationships gives you pain when you leaving this life. It’s hard to leave your parents, teachers and friends if you really close to them. But finally we need to face the reality. So in order to get ready for that, don’t get close to your relationships, keep them at your hand length. Because one day you need to leave them to fulfill your dreams or somebody else’s dreams.

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Dinali Rosemin Dabarera

Integration Consultant (IAM) @ Yenlo Nederland B.V, specialized in WSO2 IAM, an Identity Evangelist, a blogger, a nature lover, a backpacker